What a cool, right to the point article. Definitely one I thought you guys would enjoy:
I quit smoking my last year in the Air Force, and at that time, it was not easy to quit. And, that’s because back then (1970), smoking was fashionable…it was the ‘thing to do,’ and it was trendy, etc. If you didn’t smoke back then, you were some kind of square or cube. People smoked everywhere…on talk shows; in eating places; at work, etc. And, there were cigarette ads everywhere…on television, radio, newspapers, magazines. on billboards. At that time, smoking was acceptable…but, not any more!
When I was growing up, my father made a belt out of leather for my mother to use on as kids if we mis-behaved, and my mother used it when necessary! She used to keep the belt in the bottom drawer in the kitchen, and when I heard that bottom drawer open, I knew somebody in the family was in trouble! It was the DISCIPLINE of my mother, that helped me to accomplish things in my life that I would have never attempted before without that discipline.
When I enlisted in the Air Force…again…it was four years of discipline that helped me to accomplish things in my life that would be difficult without it. So many things in life require discipline such as losing weight; starting and finishing a job; building a website and completing school, etc. So, it was discipline that helped me to quit smoking, etc.
Peer pressure was a factor as well, and I had to decide if peer pressure would have an effect on my quitting smoking! Peer pressure is not just for teen-agers. Peer pressure will follow us all to the grave, by those who want us to go in a different direction with our lives! Yes, there were people who didn’t want me to quit. They would do such things as: blow smoke in my face; leave a pack of cigarettes laying around for me to see; light up a cigarette in front of me and so forth. This is the kind of peer-pressure that a person has to put up with!
These were negative people, who couldn’t quit smoking themselves, and they didn’t want anyone else to quit smoking either. They’re what I call ‘excuse-makers.’ People who always have an excuse as to why they CAN’T do anything! They never talk about what they CAN do, and they’re the jealous and resentful type!
In writing this piece, I am not a crusader or an activist for anything. If people want to commit suicide, one puff at a time…be my guest! I don’t really care! Thirty years ago, smoking was the ‘in’ thing to do, but how things have changed! Today, smokers are slowly being pushed off the planet, by those of us who place a high priority on our health, and the health of those around us.
I was never a heavy smoker…about a pack a day, but that was a pack too much! I quit smoking in the most unusual way, and that was by getting sick. I got the worst cold, flu and chest congestion that I had ever had. But, it turned out to be a blessing in disguise…a silver-lining in my life! You see, I tried to quit smoking twice before and couldn’t do it, so I didn’t know what to do. Back then, there were no medications and patches to help the smoker like they have today.
Getting sick was lucky for me and I’ll tell you why. With the stomach flu…I couldn’t keep food down; a deep chest congestion and all the rest that went with it…I was miserable! The last thing I wanted was a cigarette! (YUK) And, during this awful time in bed, I went about TEN days without a cigarette, and YAHOO was I excited! I was sick as a dog, but I was excited! TEN DAYS without a smoke…this turned out to be the beginning of the end…the end of smoking! Who knows, maybe I could go all the way! After the ten days…it was eleven…twelve…thirteen days without a smoke, and I felt I COULD BE on my way to quitting!
I thought if I could just get to the 30 day mark, I think that would be the turning point, and I could make it. Getting the first thirty days without smoking, would be quite an accomplishment to start with! Agony; depression and suffering is how I would describe the next few days. One of the first things I had to do, was I had to stay out of my whining and self-pity mode! This attitude was going to destroy my efforts for sure! I had to just look straight ahead…and, up the mountain I went…16 days without a cigarette…21 days…I was going crazy!
FINALLY, 26 days…28 days…and 30 days without a cigarette! I DID IT! (Yahoo!) Everyday, I loved to ‘X’ out all those days on the calendar when I didn’t smoke, which was a feel good feeling and gave my a lift for sure. I thought the first 30 days would be the toughest part, but there was still a long way to go. With all the temptation around, it would NOT be easy the rest of the way…and it wasn’t!
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING, and it would be my attitude that would win it for me…or lose it for me! Week after week and month after month, I struggled in my effort to quit smoking, and now I knew I would never give up! From the last two failed attempts at quitting, this was the best start I had ever had, and I intended to make all the way! I think quitting smoking or losing weight, is not so much a physical challenge, but requires a ‘mental toughness!’ The discipline and sacrifice it took to think I can do it…I can do it! Month after month I continued on my journey.
My biggest challenge back in the 70’s, was TEMPTATION! Like I said before, there were cigarette ads everywhere and people smoking everywhere! So, I think it was tougher to quit back then, than it is today. (2006) At the time, I had no idea how long it would take me to quit smoking…3 months…6 months…a year or longer! But, it didn’t matter how long it was going to take, I was determined to quit no matter how long it took! And, that’s why ‘attitude’ for me was so important!
It was a long journey for me, but when all the dust settled, to took me about TEN months to get the cravings for a cigarette out of my system! I DID IT! (Yahoo!) More than 30 years have gone by now, and I have not so much as touched a cigarette during this long period of time, and I don’t plan to either. Why would I want to put poison back in my body?
I like to talk about how I quit, because there may be readers out there who want to quit smoking, and have tried different methods and failed. Many of us get colds and the flu each year! This piece can be a reminder, that if you DO get a cold this year, this may be your starting point, just like it was for me! An opportunity came by for me…getting sick as a dog…I took it and never looked back! This is an example where a negative turned into a huge POSITIVE for me!
In 2001, I lost more than 40 pounds and quitting smoking and losing weight are similar, in my opinion! It takes a ‘mental toughness’ to do either! Discipline; determination; commitment; fighting off peer-pressure and temptation…and, I don’t think any of these things are available over-the-counter or by prescription! These are the qualities you’re going to need to quit! All these things I mentioned only come from inside the person’s body…the heart and the soul! Quitting smoking is not going to come from snake oil, magic dust, pills, patches, malts…because those are all only AIDS to HELP the person quit! To quit smoking, is going to come from YOU…and only YOU alone can do it!
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